Whats a creampie
A creampie is a term used in pornography. It is when a man ejaculates semen into his partner’s vagina or anus. Usually, the semen is then seen dripping out.
WHAT DOES CREAMPIE MEAN?
A slang term for ejaculating inside a sexual partner without protection. Think of the ejaculate as cream, and the partner as pie crust.
OTHER DEFINITIONS OF CREAMPIE:
The act of having unprotected sex, and climaxing without pulling out. often, especially in pornography, the semen is then displayed in the vagina or anus. Orgasming inside someone without a condom. A term referring to the often fetishized sexual act of coming inside a partner’s vagina or anus and leaving the discharge inside.
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HOW TO USE THE TERM
CREAMPIE:
No creampie for us. we’re not trying for children here.
My partner gave me permission to creampie.
After this creampie, let’s get some cream pie.
Everything you need to know about Creampies
It’s not particularly poetic, but most humans throughout history have come to exist due to one particular aspect of sex — a penis ejaculating semen into a vagina so the sperm can meet the egg.
As much fun as all the other possible variations of sex can be, that one in particular gets a lot of airplay for the simple reason that it’s how we as a species have reproduced all these years.
Of course, modern technology, like in vitro fertilization (or just turkey basters), has made unprotected sex an unnecessary aspect of reproduction, and birth control advancements and prophylactic technology in the 20th and 21st centuries have made it so people can engage in unprotected sex without worrying that it’ll likely lead to a pregnancy.
But ejaculating into a vagina, an act known colloquially as a “creampie,” remains a fascinating act for many people, one with deep and abiding erotic significance.
In an age where casual sex has been normalized to a degree that would shock people just a few generations ago, not only are condoms are a fact of life, but creampies can feel like the last true frontier of intimacy in some ways.
What Is a Creampie?
Depending on who you ask, a creampie can be a few different things. It’s traditionally defined as ejaculation into a vagina during the course of penis-in-vagina penetrative sex — the term coming from a literal pie filled with whipped cream, which is also filled with a semi-liquid white substance thatmight drip or ooze out when cut into.
However, for some people, ejaculating into an anus during penetrative anal sex could also count as a creampie, and ejaculating into someone’s mouth or down someone’s throat during a blowjob is sometimes called a “throatpie.”
Porn scenes that feature a creampie typically have a shot of the semen dripping out of the vagina in order to show the viewer that a real ejaculation occurred, even if the shot is faked in one way or another.
Why Do Guys Like Creampies?
For Alice Vaughn, co-host of the “Two Girls One Mic: The Porncast” podcast, it’s no secret why creampie sex is highly sought after by some guys.
“Safe sex is great, but having a condom on does reduce physical stimulation,” admits Vaughn As well, she notes that if you’re pulling out of your partner, “you have to actively prevent yourself [from cumming] when it feels best in order to do this.”
Outside of the heightened physical sensation of unprotected sex mixed with the freedom to keep on thrusting during the moment of climax, there are also a number of psychological reasons guys might be into creampies.
“Not every guy will like creampies, but for those who do, the reasons they like it can vary,” says sex educator Kenneth Play.
For some, it might be a case of having sex in a way that feels more ‘natural’ — as Play puts it, “the instinctual, primal feeling of satisfaction of having natural sex” — without protection and seemingly without worrying about pregnancy, even if their partner is on hormonal birth control or uses an IUD.
For some guys, that absence of condoms might be a big turn-on, too, as there’s an added feeling of freedom from worrying about the potential impact of your ejaculating in your partner.
“Because of modern birth control and technology, we have a more responsible way of planning for pregnancy, and it’s more common for men to wear condoms, pull out, etc. during sex,” notes Play. “Creampies have become a more rare experience, which could increase the contextual eroticism.”
Some guys might be into creampies not just because they’re rare, but specifically because that rarity carries with it a certain shocking or exciting aspect. Play calls this “the taboo of having risky sex, for some people, whether from STI or pregnancy risk.”
In short, there are tons of different ways creampies can feel sexy or exciting. “At the end of the day,” Play says, “it will dramatically depend on the guy, and the couple.”
As well, he says that guys aren’t the only ones who find creampies to be an erotic concept.
“Some women also find creampies immensely hot, and this may be a turn on for their partners,” adds Play. They might find it arousing to have their partner ejaculate inside them, or simply might like to fantasize about it without it actually occurring.
Creampies and Porn
Between all the myriad ways creampies can be erotic or exciting, whether giving or receiving, it’s no shock that they have a big role in porn.
“It’s unsurprising to me that the concept of creampies is popular,” says Vaughn. “Looking at Pornhub’s annual report within the last five years, specifically the search for ‘creampies’ globally has held fairly consistent as ranking between 16th and 20th worldwide.”
When it comes to sexual desire, it can be hard to delineate whether the erotic material we seek out and consume informs our sexual desires or vice versa. However, whether watching creampie porn is fueled by being into creampies to begin with or the other way around, Vaughn thinks there’s a good chance guys who watch creampie porn have at least considered the idea of engaging in the practice in real life.
But it’s worth noting that as common as creampies can be in porn, they’re not always 100 percent real.
Since porn is a visual medium, and creampies necessarily mean the moment of ejaculation will occur out of sight of the cameras, there’s pressure to ensure a visual payoff of some sort. Sometimes, that means faking the post-creampie shot.
“A creampie scene can be faked with moisturizer, assuming the actress isn’t on birth control,” notes Vaughn, though she suggests this isn’t a particularly common practice. “Sometimes, they’ll add extra fake cum to make the load look bigger. Regardless, talent almost always knows ahead of time if the scene will require it, because much like any act in porn, they want to make sure the talent is comfortable and can do that scene if required.”
How to Discuss Creampies With Your Partner
If you’re a guy who finds creampies arousing in the porn you watch or the erotica you read, you might want to experience them in your own sex life.
However, it’s important to note that without full and enthusiastic consent from your partner, ejaculating inside them constitutes a violating act akin to rape, in particular because the consequences stemming from ejaculating in someone can be quite severe.
Kayla Lords, sexpert for Camarads.com Gallery, points out that someone’s hesitation around being creampied could stem from many different reasons, all of them valid.
“Some partners don’t want to be creampied because they don’t enjoy the feeling of ejaculate in or on their body,” says Lords. “They may have concerns about pregnancy or STI transmission. Some people just don’t like it — and they don’t have to give a reason why.”
Even if you’re creampie obsessed, if you’re the penetrating partner, you need to remember that it’s not your decision to make. You would want to have the final say on anything that might affect your body in a similar way, so it’s important to extend that respect to your partner, too.
That being said, It is possible to have the discussion in a respectful way, and it’s possible your partner will be into the idea as well.
“Be open and honest with your partner if you want to ejaculate inside of them,” says Lords. “It’s often easier to have this conversation once you’ve established trust and rapport with them.”
Play notes that it’s especially important to bring it up during a conversation about your sex life, rather than during the act of sex itself.
“If you want to ejaculate inside your partner, you need to talk about it way ahead of having sex,” he cautions. “You cannot negotiate creampies during sex or right before you’re about to cum! Because of the risky nature of this activity especially, you absolutely need to make sure you and your partner are on the same page. As high-risk fantasy and behavior, it needs to be treated with a higher level of care.”
If your partner says yes (or is open to the idea), be open and honest about why you find creampies so exciting to help your partner understand what the draw is for you.
“After you’ve gotten some explicit, enthusiastic consent before your sexual encounter, you can start talking about what makes it hot for you both,” says Play. “Figure out what gets you both hot for internal ejaculation. Maybe she loves the taboo of pregnancy risk or you both want to play with some consensual ‘forced’ impregnation? Maybe you both love how natural and primal the urge feels and want to culminate it? Think of this as pre-gaming dirty talk, and negotiate the details of your creampie as part of your foreplay.”
And if your partner isn’t up for you ejaculating inside them? Don’t push it.
“Listen to their concerns and be willing to answer their questions,” says Lords. “Ultimately it’s their decision, so if they say no, you’ll need to respect that.”
What to Do If Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Be Creampied
With the risks associated with being creampied, there’s a chance they’re totally off the table in your relationship. If so, you’ll need to accept that and respect their decision — as Lords points out, even if it’s not an STI or pregnancy concerns — but that doesn’t mean there’s nothing you can do to accommodate your desire.
If you’re really serious about wanting to ejaculate inside your partner, it’s possible that they’ll warm to the idea over time. People’s appetites and comfort level with various sex acts can definitely evolve over the course of their life.
“If this is a long-term relationship, they may change their mind,” notes Lords. “The worst thing you could do is pressure your partner — that violates consent. But if they’re willing to discuss it from time to time (think over months or years), they may one day feel differently about it.”
If your partner’s definitely not interested, for the short term, you could explore other ways to get the thrill, whether physical or psychological, that you associate with ejaculating in someone else.
“Consider how else you can experience a creampie without your partner,” says Lords. “Maybe a sex toy can be a stand-in so you get the visual pleasure of seeing your ejaculate seep out of the masturbator. It’s not the same, but it might be a good alternative.”
Other possibilities could include ejaculating into a condom (or female condom) while penetrating your partner, working creampie conversations into your dirty talk or sexting without actually engaging in the act. At the end of the day, the vision of creampies in porn might be deeply erotic, but as with porn in general, it’s a fantasy being played out by professional actors.
From the cum not always being real cum to the ejaculation potentially being faked entirely, recreating that fantasy might not be as simple as it looks.
Creampie is a sexual act, commonly featured in pornography, in which a male ejaculates inside his partner’s vagina or anus without use of a condom, resulting in visible seeping or dripping of semen from the vagina or anus.
Cream pie is the sexual act of a penis ejaculating into a vagina or anus, with the ejaculate’s seepage out of the oriface being visible and desired.
The visual aspect is highly prized when engaging in a cream pie cumshot. Cream pie is a fetish among different sexualities and genders, it just requires a penis, (or penis substitute) that ejaculates and an anus or vagina to engage in this act.
Cream pie is one of those sex terms that actually describes a very basic aspect of sex in a new way. Throughout history, the vast majority of penetrative vaginal and anal sex with a penis has involved semen ejaculate freely flowing into the receptive partner’s body, with some of it necessarily flowing back out. It is a common end result of penetrative sex even when contraception is being used.
However, since the advent of condoms, stopping that flow has become more pronounced. In the beginning, condoms were specifically created for contraception. Recent decades have seen condoms also become the preferred barrier method to avoid the spread of sexually transmitted infections as well as continuing to reduce the chance of pregnancy.
Because of the HIV crisis in the 1980s, condom use was heavily promoted, and people who have come to be sexually active since then have often grown up using condoms frequently, if not always. Not everybody embraced condoms, but a significant number did.
As so many people became used to sex with condoms, a new genre of pornography offering something entirely different arose in the early 2000s. Cream pie scenes following barrier-free ejaculation became a very popular genre because cumming inside another person had become a taboo sex act. Some find the risk and danger sexually stimulating.
Cream pie is also referred to as an internal cum shot.
When most people think of a creampie, the classic American dessert usually comes to mind. But it actually has another meaning that is way less family-friendly. The non-dessert definition of a creampie is when semen visibly drips out of a vagina or anus after a man ejaculates in there during sex. Try ordering that at Marie Callender’s.
Kelly Madison, a porn performer and producer and director, suspects that creampies are popular in mainstream heterosexual porn for a few reasons. First of all, it’s kind of taboo these days to have casual sex without a condom because of STIs. In that way, a creampie scene has a sense of risk and danger to it, which some find sexy. Second, however misguided the notion, it makes some men feel like they’ve “accomplished” something. “It’s like [men think], There’s so much cum because [I’m] such an Adonis!” Madison says. Cool, guys.
According to Madison, female porn performers generally get paid more for creampie scenes and some will turn them down. Without using a condom, there’s obviously a much greater risk of contracting an STI or getting pregnant.
In 2004, a porn actress named Lara Roxx got HIV from her on-screen partner Darren James while filming an anal creampie scene. Even though James tested negative for HIV when he got back from a vacation in Brazil, he did indeed have the disease. James unfortunately infected 13 actresses before he tested positive. Rates of HIV are around 18 times higher in anal rather than vaginal intercourse, so anal creampies are much riskier.
